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"You want to do what? Are you crazy?" That was pretty much the
response my husband and I received years ago when we told friends
and family that we had decided to homeschool our gifted son. We
had actually been homeschooling from birth, but now that he was
approaching "school-age" it was time to make the decision public
knowledge. A short time later, when we adopted a beautiful baby
boy with Down syndrome and shared that we intended to homeschool
him as well--let's just say the comments and concern intensified.
Then followed two more adoptions--another son and a daughter, both
with Down syndrome and various significant medical challenges.
Finally, another gifted son was born to us in a most delightful
surprise. Even after seeing the incredible experience homeschooling
has been for all of our children, and the graduation of our oldest
a few weeks before his 16 th birthday, there are naysayers who
think we have gone off our rockers a bit! Raising a healthy, typically
developing child in today's chaotic world can be a challenge. Raising
a child with special medical or developmental issues adds its own
unique boulders in the road. If you then decide that you want to
take total responsibility for teaching this precious child, those
boulders might seem to be rolling down the hill straight towards
your home! Ah, but what a joy and blessing these years have been
for our family, and how much we believe our children have benefited
from homeschooling!
The Old Schoolhouse® Magazine has put together a
wonderful 115-page e-book ($12.45) to offer encouragement and practical
advice to parents who are homeschooling children with a wide variety
of special needs. In the Epilogue, Christine Field notes that the
book was intended to give us "a glimpse into the trenches." Someplace
Called Special begins with 11 chapters, each written by a
mother of a child with a specific medical or developmental diagnosis,
such as dyslexia, cerebral palsy, Asperger's Syndrome, Down syndrome,
gifted, or lupus. There is also a chapter on the "Ten Reasons to
Homeschool Your Child with Special Needs," an Epilogue, and a wonderful
Appendix that includes "The Good, the Bad, and the Blunt: Answers
to Common Questions," information on IEPs, and a glossary that
defines each of the diagnoses discussed.
If you are homeschooling a child with special needs, or have been
praying about whether you can and should homeschool your child,
then you need to read Someplace Called Special! I enjoyed
reading every chapter, even those that don't directly pertain to
my kids. All of the authors did a wonderful job of providing practical
information, ideas, options, and most of all, encouragement. It
is easy to feel alone on this path and to become discouraged. Some
of the parents had tried the public or private school systems for
their child only to find their needs weren't being met, thus leading
to their homeschool adventure. Others homeschooled their special
child from birth. Some have professional training related to their
child's special needs. Others are "just" dedicated and caring moms
who have gained much wisdom along the way. However, all of the
authors share their challenges and joys as they have sought to
meet the needs of their child. I didn't realize how discouraged
I had lately become in our homeschool journey until I breathed
in the encouragement of these wonderful moms! There is something
magical about hearing from others who have been down the same road
and can offer a word of advice or support. If you have become discouraged
in homeschooling your special needs child, or you aren't sure if
you can really do this, I think you will find much sage advice
and encouragement in this wonderful e-book!
P.S. I hesitate to mention this aloud, but . . . if you have well-meaning
relatives or friends who are less than enthusiastic about your
decision to homeschool your child with special needs, perhaps you
could have them peruse Someplace Called Special. Maybe
reading about other families' experiences will help them gain a
better understanding of why you are doing what you are doing. Just
a thought!
Product review by Dr. Anne Margaret Wright, Senior Product Reviewer, The
Old Schoolhouse® Magazine, LLC, October 2010
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