Nearly every mother sings to her baby. It's practically written
in our DNA. Whether it's an operatic voice or a shower-only voice,
babies love to hear mommy sing. I'm in the "shower-only" category,
unfortunately, but I've always sung to my five children, especially
when they were very young. My husband has a beautiful singing voice,
and he has always used his voice to comfort and encourage our kids.
He sings "The Lord Bless You and Keep You" to the kids at bedtime
every night. What a great message for sending them off to happy
slumber. We've used little jingles or short songs throughout our
parenting and have found them to be very helpful. For example,
two of our sons who have Down syndrome struggle with many sensory
issues. Brushing their teeth felt very overwhelming for them, so
we came up with a tooth-brushing song: "Brush, brush, brush your
teeth. Brush them all day long. Brush them 'til they shine all
pretty. Brush them all day long." When we get in the car to go
somewhere, we sing: "Off we go into the wild blue yonder. Off we
go! Look at us go!" Not profound, but it definitely works!
Mommy Jingles was created by Amy Robbins-Wilson, M.A.,
to help busy moms integrate simple jingles into their baby's routine.
She covers all of the normal, daily routines and challenges, such
as brushing your teeth (her song is much more ingenious than mine!),
coming to the table at mealtime, waking up and going to bed, bath
time, etc. There is also a very clever song called "Popping In
and Popping Out," and it is for those times when you've just gotten
your child settled with a sitter and realize you have to go back
into the house--preferably without upsetting your child! Mommy
Jingles is an Internet subscription service ($197 for a one-year
subscription with a 30-day money-back guarantee). Each week for
eight weeks a new category is opened up which includes the jingles
relevant to that topic; the songs are presented first in video
format with some explanation about using the jingles effectively.
You can watch the video and listen to each individual song as many
times as needed, and you can print out the words to the jingles
or helpful Reminder Cards. Scattered throughout are additional
helpful videos and ideas, such as MP3 files for lullabies and videos
about making a Nap Blanket.
My family loved the concept of Mommy Jingles. Rituals,
including special songs or jingles, provide predictability, stability,
and calmness to our children when the world feels big or out of
control. Jingles can be calming for both mother and child, helping
them feel more bonded and ready to face the challenges of a new
day. Mrs. Robbins-Wilson is very upbeat and positive in her presentation
of the jingles and in her encouragement to parents. She obviously
feels passionately about the value of what she has to teach and
wants the jingles to be helpful to parents. However, we were less
than enthused by the price of a one-year subscription! I would
love to see an option to purchase the series in DVD format so it
could be viewed again later, perhaps after the birth of another
child a few years later. We were impressed, though, with the variety
of songs, the cleverness of the material, and the effectiveness
that would surely be realized by a parent using these jingles on
a regular basis. Advertisers have found jingles to be extremely
effective in selling their wares. Why can't parents utilize this
tried and true tool to help nurture and teach their children?
Product review by Dr. Anne Margaret Wright, Senior Product Reviewer, The
Old Schoolhouse® Magazine, LLC, September 2011
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