Cindy Downes has been advising
and encouraging homeschoolers for
over ten years. After graduating her own
high schoolers in 1994, she began to offer
her expertise to other moms in their
home education programs. Many struggled
with traditional curriculum but were
afraid to break away from the seeming
security it offered. Cindy began to work
on The Checklist: A K-12 Scope and
Sequence/Recordkeeper for Christian
Home Educators, which is available on
her website at www.oklahomahomeschool.com. In addition, the site contains
some of the most comprehensive material
for planning a program that I’ve ever
seen! She joins TOS to share her heart for
homeschoolers.
TOS: Cindy, I’m so impressed with the
comprehensive materials you have produced!
When did you begin to write and
synthesize materials for homeschoolers?
CINDY: Each year, I did homeschool
consulting from early spring through Au-
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gust. I loved helping moms simplify their
homeschool and create lesson plans that
worked for them. However, after I became
a grandmother, I wanted to spend more
time with my grandchild. I realized that
in order to do this, I would have to give
up the consulting. “My” moms were really
upset; so to keep them happy, I told
them that I would put everything I ever
knew about homeschooling on my website.
That way, they could “pick” my brain
any time they wanted and I could enjoy
my granddaughter while she was young!
I started by putting all the newsletter
articles I’ve written and workshops I’ve
taught in HTML format and putting them
on the website. Next, I added the forms
I’ve created and unit studies I’ve written.
In the meantime, I wrote The Checklist
so that moms could develop their own
lesson plans. That took me five years to
complete! During the last two years, I’ve
added field trip information and Oklahoma
history resources to the website. I
still have so many more ideas to add, but
time is so short!
TOS: What do you see is the number-
one reason homeschoolers become
discouraged?
CINDY: Homeschooling is hard work; it
doesn’t always look like it’s “working”;
and there’s a lot of pressure from the rest
of the world to conform to what’s considered
“normal.” I have seen that the parents
who make it are the ones who have
strong motivation: the traditional system
does not work for their child, they have
strong religious reasons to homeschool,
and/or they have a strong support system
(either through their spouse, other family
members, or a support group). My advice
to new homeschoolers is make sure you
know why you are homeschooling, don’t
look at short-term results, don’t compare
one child to another, and find someone
you can count on for support as you take
this journey.
TOS: Good advice for all of us! With so
many options available to us—different
curriculum, different publishers—how
do we make wise choices?
CINDY: First, don’t go to a curriculum
fair or bookstore unprepared. Ask a seasoned
homeschooler with the same philosophy
of education and who teaches a
child with the same learning style as your
child to help you get started. Don’t ask
schoolteachers—they know what works
in a classroom, but homeschooling is different.
(Some of my best clients when
I was consulting were schoolteachers
turned homeschool moms. They needed
to learn a new way of teaching.)
Second, give yourself a couple of years
to fine-tune your curriculum to what
works for your family. We’re all different.
Don’t try to do the same thing your friend
is doing, and don’t be afraid to change
when something doesn’t work. You’ll
discover as you go along that your teaching
will change. Your goals will change.
Your children will have different abilities
and interests. You’ll go through plateaus
where they seem to be learning very little
and then there will be a big burst where
they seem to be learning faster than you
can teach them. Homeschooling is a lot of
trial and error. Use what works. Change
what doesn’t. And reevaluate every year.
For help in getting started, check out
my “Step-by-Step Guide to Choosing
Curriculum” (www.oklahomahomeschool.com/CCstepbystep.html).
TOS: What advice do you have for the
mom in the trenches with several children,
all at different grade levels?
CINDY: Teach multi-level! It will make
your life much simpler. You have to
teach math, reading instructions, and
handwriting one-on-one, but most other
subjects can be taught in a “one-room
schoolhouse” type of approach. Spend the
morning hours with one-on-one subjects
while older children work independently;
then spend the afternoon doing the other
subjects as a group.
Learn to use books as a resource, not as
a “Bible” to be followed by the letter. Pick
and choose what works for your child.
Skip what’s not needed and add additional
resources when additional practice
is needed. Don’t be afraid to deviate from
the normal curriculum choices if it will
benefit your child. Not everyone needs
to know Shakespeare any more than everyone
needs to know art, calculus, or
computer graphics. Not every child will
have the same career. Find out what your
child’s gifts and interests are and focus
your teaching towards developing them.
Last, don’t teach every subject every
day. Unlike a school where you have to
change classes every 45 minutes, you
can alternate subjects on separate days,
spending as much time as you need on the
subject to cover what you want to cover.
This eliminates a lot of time wasted in
“changing classes.”
TOS: I so much appreciate the fact that
you don’t claim to have the one and only
answer for how to homeschool. In your
personal experience, did you follow a
structured program when you began?
What made you change?
CINDY: Yes, I tried the structured approach
in the beginning. Within two
months, however, I knew something had
to change because all I was doing was
re-creating the same problems at home
that my child had had in school! After
talking with Dorothy Moore (author of
Home Grown Kids), I put my structured
curriculum in a closet and used an “unschooling”
approach for a few years. We
read together, did projects together, went
places, and learned from the world around
us. Gradually, we added back curriculum
as needed until, by the time they were in
junior high school, they were teaching
themselves from a variety of resources,
both traditional and nontraditional.
TOS: Tell our readers a little about what
The Checklist contains and how it is to be
used.
CINDY: In 1994, after my own children
had graduated from high school, I began
to help other moms with their home education
programs. Most of these teachermoms
were struggling with traditional
curriculum and found that after spending
hours “filling in the blanks,” neither
they nor their children had the desire or
the energy to pursue other desires and
interests. I began to encourage them to put
aside their traditional curriculum, which
was developed for a classroom setting,
and select materials that met the specific
needs of each of their children. I encouraged
them to use more “real” books, add
some multi-level unit studies, and make
textbooks their servants instead of the
other way around. Many of them were
afraid that by doing this they wouldn’t
cover everything that was required by the
state, their children wouldn’t be able to
get into college, or their children’s education
would somehow be inadequate.
I realized that parents using this nontraditional
approach would need a tool
that would help them plan their children’s
educational program and keep track of
what has been covered. That’s why I began
working on The Checklist. I arranged
it into outline form based on Luke 2:52
(“And Jesus increased in wisdom and
stature, in favor with God and with man”)
and placed each learning topic into one
of four categories: Wisdom, Stature, In
Favor with God, and In Favor with Man.
(See sample pages for more information:
www.oklahomahomeschool.com/checklist.html.)
My goals in creating The Checklist
[were] to help parents identify their
child’s reading, writing, and math skills
(assessment); discover any “holes” in
their child’s learning (assessment); plan
what their child needs to cover each year
(scheduling, lesson-planning, scope and
sequence); keep track of what their child
has covered each year (recordkeeping);
and prepare unit studies, if desired, by
theme, timeline era, geographic location,
or by using biographies; all in the context
of the Word of God.
TOS: The unit studies and other information
on your site are fabulous! Can you
tell us a little about what else we will find
there?
CINDY: My website is [everything] I ever
knew about homeschooling, plus what I
am continuing to learn. I’ve included information
on how to get started in home-
schooling (including some “assessments”
for potential homeschool parents!), how
to choose curriculum based on learning
styles, how to teach multi-level, tips on
how to teach the basic subjects, information
on teaching high school and preparing
transcripts, homeschool forms that
I’ve created, free unit studies, Oklahoma
history teaching resources, and local information
for Oklahoma homeschoolers.
TOS: This is an incredible resource
that our readers should know about. The
Checklist is for sale at the website, but all
the other resources are free, free, free!
This is an in-depth education in homeschooling,
all at your fingertips, at www.oklahomahomeschool.com.
We are so grateful for Cindy Downes
for her many years of work and service
to the homeschooling community. Stay
tuned to see what she comes up with
next!
Cindy Downes is a veteran homeschool
mom of two. She maintains the Oklahoma
Homeschool website, teaches workshops,
and writes curriculum including The
Checklist and Oklahoma History Online.
When she is not writing, she enjoys
reading, cooking, biking, traveling with
her husband, and volunteering at church
and for a local hospice. Contact her at
cindy@oklahomahomeschool.com.
Copyright 2006. The Old Schoolhouse Magazine, Summer 2006, pages 64-67.
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